I have a teenager who volunteers for me at work. I will call him, "Neil" for anonymity sake. 'Neil' is 16. He approached me some months ago for a job as a personal trainer. He explained with an incredible amount of earnestness that he had personally experienced a life changing transformation because of fitness and he wanted to share his newfound knowledge with others. I told 'Neil' that while I didn't have a job for him, per say, I could offer him a volunteer position. He responded quickly that he felt he was over-qualified for a volunteer position and would "think about it."
After a few weeks of thinking about it, 'Neil' agreed to a volunteer position in the fitness center. His role was to make members feel welcome and answer questions. In short, he was to be helpful. In his volunteer role, 'Neil' and I had the opportunity to get to know each other better. I asked him what his life plan was; where did he want to go to college, what was his career path. I fully expected with his passion for fitness, to respond that he in fact wanted MY job. (insert smugness) Instead, he responded without a second of pause that he wanted to attend a prestigious University in Texas, major in Political Science and would one day be President of the United States. I couldn't help but smile.
When I was a youngster, I used to tell people confidently, that I wanted to be both a brain surgeon AND a break dancer when I "grew up." I remember their laughs and the way they would pat me on the head. "Oh--she's so creative! So ambitious! A break dancer AND a brain surgeon?!" Remembering the way those adults made me feel, I looked right at 'Neil' and said, "Well, aren't I lucky to know and have worked with the future President of the United States."
I have thought about 'Neil's' unabashed belief in who he will become many times since our conversation. In part, because he tells every person he meets his "plan" but, mostly because his desire stirs something within me.
I teach fitness classes and do personal training all day long with people who have lost the vision about who they will become. They feel they are too old, too out of shape, too whatever to become that dream that they once held.
FACT: People change their lives every single day. People pick up as single parents with three kids and go back to school. People take a chance on a dream idea and end up making millions. People start walking one day and a year later are running a marathon.
So, I ask you this, "who could you be--if you thought you could?" Let that marinate... Now, write it down. Don't be shy. Dare to dream big--HUGE even. Ask yourself this, "Why is that dream not possible?" Write all those reasons down and forget them. For every reason you can't, respond with a reason you can. Hold yourself accountable. Tell a best friend or your partner your dream. Share it with a career coach or a personal trainer.
While I didn't grow up to be a b-girl or a brain surgeon, I do wake up every day ready to take chances, inspire people and dream big. So I challenge you tomorrow to wake up armed with with the vision of who you can be and just "go be it."
"It's a funny thing about life: if you refuse to accept anything but the best, you very often get it."
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-William Somerset Maugham |