Be The Change Challenge

"Be the change you wish to see in the world." -Mahatma Gandhi

A simple quote powerful enough to change the world. This Holiday season I want to ask all of you to take the "Be the Change" Challenge.

The idea for this challenge was stirred by a letter I received from my step-mom. It was forwarded to her from a co-worker and was written for a man named Hobo Phil.

Hobo Phil is a client of the Springs Resource Program. He asked the Resource Advocate Coordinator if she would write a letter for him about the Holidays and forward it to her friends and family. See letter below.

TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN:

Hi my name is Hobo Phil (as my friends call me). I am a homeless person on the streets of Colorado Springs. I got here by bad judgments by myself most of my life. But being here on the streets has opened my eyes to what is important and vital to our success and survival. Love and compassion for your fellow man, forgiveness to yourself and others is the greatest gift you can give or receive.

I am also a bell-ringer. Yes, one of those people you turn away from. You say to yourself, I don’t see him, I hope he doesn’t say anything to me. Not because I’m homeless because you don’t know that. I’m just a bell-ringer. I have learned a lot from doing this job that no amount of money could buy and no school can teach. You the people of Colorado Springs have taught me. An elderly lady and a gentleman put money into my donation box and I told them both “merry Christmas” and the man told me thank you for saying ‘Merry Christmas’. The elderly lady said “yes, what he said. Thank you for saying Merry Christmas”. Many other elderly people have said the same thing. That stuck in my head. As I was going down the streets of Colorado Springs downtown there were some young college girls giving free hugs. They were making people smile and feel good about themselves for a while. Thanks. I was one of them.

I was looking at the lights and the people and remembering when I was a small child. The joy of the lights and the Christmas carolers going door-to-door and up and down the streets making people smile and joyful. Whatever happened to that? And it costs nothing. Just a little kindness and giving of themselves to make someone else’s day a little more joyful and making them forget their troubles for just a slight moment. Money won’t buy that. Only you can give it. Try it. It won’t cost you anything. So don’t be afraid to drop a penny or whatever you can afford when you pass us. Say “hello”, “Merry Christmas” or whatever. Even the Scrooge said “Bah, humbug” and look what happened to him.

Let’s get back to what we were taught when we were little ourselves and show and teach the younger generation what we have forgotten. It’s not lost. Just remember. Bring it back. The true meaning of Christmas…remember that hugs are free. Hugs are good. Make someone else smile. It won’t cost you anything. If you concur with what I say, email this to a friend and help spread the Christmas Joy. This will be one of my best Christmases because I have remembered. Thanks you for listening, and as Red Skelton would say, “Merry Christmas and God Bless”.

-Hobo Phil

It was Hobo Phil's message about love and compassion for humankind that struck me most. How often do we go about our day, so consumed with our own life that we miss the small opportunities to change someone's life? Think of the ripple effect of goodness you might have just by engaging the person checking you out in line. Asking them sincerely how they are doing. Giving them a genuine smile. Thanking them for their help and really meaning it.

A friend posted on Facebook a "thank you" to an anonymous person that paid for both her and a friend's soup at lunchtime. She didn't know who it was, but vowed to do something for someone else. To pay it forward.

Often times we don't do anything because we are paralyzed by how much needs to be done. Just start with something small.

Once you have been the change, post what you did here and inspire others.

Ready. Set. Be the change!

Fitness Question of the Week: Help My Aching Hips

The Question:

Hey..gotta question for ya! I have been running about 15 miles a week for over a year pain free. Last month I increased my runs from 3-4 miles to 5 miles. I have pain everywhere, my knees and major in my hip in the front--the muscle you use to lift your leg. Whats up??? I am soo frustrated!

-Jani

HBW's Response:

First, don't be frustrated. I think I can help! You are experiencing something that happens to folks sometimes when they increase their mileage. The pain you are feeling in the front of your leg originating in the hip is potentially a pulled or strained muscle. That muscle group where you are feeling the pain are called the hip flexors. The hip flexors are responsible for knee flexion and move the hip forward when running or walking. When you run you are repeating that motion over and over. It can get inflamed and that is probably the pain you are experiencing.

Caveat: I am not a Dr. or a physical therapist-please see a Dr. for an official diagnosis.

The fix:

1. Stop running until you are pain free; change up the cardio activity you are doing. Try the ellipitcal or something low impact. If the activity you are doing hurts in your hip flexor--stop! You have to get rid of the inflammation before it can heal.

2. Ice and Anti-inflammatory meds:
-Get a paper cup and fill it with water.
-Put it in the freezer and let it freeze solid.
-Remove the cup and tear off a small amount of the paper to expose the ice.
-Use the ice cube and rub it on the front of your hip, massaging the injured area.
-Do this 3x's per day for 20 minutes each time.
-Be careful not to get frost bite!

If you take anti-inflammatory medication such as Advil do that too. Take 800 mgs every 4-5 hours until pain subsides. If you don't, arnica is a great, holistic, topical med that will provide some relief too!

3. Start stretching A LOT and foam rolling even more: I have attached a video from youtube that demonstrates a good set of dynamic stretches for your hip flexor.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HaQFZ8TOUfA

A foam roller is a device you can use to perform myofascial release. I have attached a link to youtube to show you what it is and how to use it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RnBuY-3a_04

4. Surface: Have you changed the surface you are running on recently? Moved from treadmill to street or vice versa? That too can cause an injury and pain in your joints that you've not experienced before.

5. Shoes: When is the last time you got new running shoes? Experts suggest buying new shoes every 500 miles or 500 hours of use, whatever comes first. At 15 miles per week, plus wearing them during a workout, they are kaput around 6 months, maybe less if you wear the more often.

Find a quality running store and have them do a gait analysis. From that, they can tell you which sort of shoe is a best fit for your gait. While the shoe might be a bit more expensive, you will notice the difference RIGHT away!

6. When you are pain free and have brand spankin' new running shoes, check back with me about how to build a progressive running program that will keep you pain free. I will also give you some specific strength exercises that will stabilize the hips, knees and back for running and keep you pain free!

The Golden Ticket

-In your wildest dreams you cannot imagine the marvelous SURPRISES that await YOU-

There is a story of a man, who every day, kneeled in front of a stone statue of a Saint. He would pray and pray and pray to win the lottery. Finally, one day the stone statue came to life and said, “Please buy a ticket.”

And so that is what I’ve done. I bought a ticket for a chance to win the lottery

I moved to San Francisco six and a half years ago without anything. No job, no money, no friends and no support system. When I told my parents I was moving, the advice I got went something like this, “Good luck, but don’t call us if something blows up in your face.”

To make ends meet, I worked six jobs, including one illustrious job as a cater waiter. Yes, I wore a cumber bun, served pre-plated meals, posed for goofy pictures with the wedding party and saw countless first dances, all to make it work in the city by the Bay.

Slowly, I built my safety net and deliberately I determined what I really wanted to do for my career. Six and half years later, I was the Fitness Director at one of the largest YMCAs in the Bay Area. From cumber bun to corner office, it was a labor of love.

So why after all that hard work, am I exactly 1,829.75 miles from all that warm and fuzzy love, support and accomplishment? I believe in the physics of the quest.

“I’ve come to believe that there exists in the universe something I call ‘The Physics of The Quest’ – a force of nature governed by laws as real as the laws gravity or momentum. And the rule of Quest Physics maybe goes like this: If you are brave enough to leave behind everything familiar and comforting (which can be anything from your house to your bitter old resentments) and set out on a truth-seeking journey (either externally or internally), and if you are truly willing to regard everything that happens to you on that journey as a clue, and if you accept everyone you meet along the way as a teacher, and if you are prepared – most of all – to face (and forgive) some very difficult realities about yourself….then truth will not be withheld from you. Or so I’ve come to believe.” –Eat, Love, Pray

Simply put, you find your life in the seeking. If you allow the illusions of safety and security to dampen your dreams or silence your heart’s song, than you will never know true success. It’s in stepping of the edge of the cliff, in the free fall, that you learn to use your wings.

I was ready for what’s next. Therefore, when I was presented with the amazing opportunity to provide executive leadership to my family’s foundation and start my own business, I knew in my heart and in my gut it was the right thing to do. Was it scary to leave a job I loved and an organization I believe it? Yes. Was it terrifying to leave friends I love and adore? Oh, yes! Was it heartbreaking to leave a city I consider home? Without a doubt. Yet, I did it anyway. Bolstered by the believe that my life is what I make it, I had no other choice but to try.

And so, the Kansas City kid has come home to collect on a golden lottery ticket.

I challenge you to find your life in the seeking. Do something today that scares you just enough to know it is the right thing to do.